Published by Programme B
The topic of relationships will never get old. For a man, the initial stage of a relationship is a kind of game. But guys often don’t see (or prefer not to notice) the fact that a girl is not interested in them. Here are some signs that show she doesn’t want a relationship with you.
- She never gets in touch first
That is, you call her, send “good morning”, “good night”, “how are you” messages, but a girl doesn’t give detailed answers and just mirrors your questions. It seems to you that you don’t get in touch and, in general, she is not interested in you at all. But girls are looking forward to the attention of a man they like, especially at the very beginning of a relationship.
- She says she recently broke up with her boyfriend and is not yet ready to start a relationship again
It is nonsense. A woman needs support from a man after a painful breakup. Right now, more than ever, she wants to feel masculine care, and, at the same time, raise her self-esteem. So, if a girl gives this argument to your offer to meet, don’t believe, she just doesn’t like you. Look for a good single women chat and find another girl there.
- She constantly uses the word “friend”
This is perhaps the most obvious hint that a girl doesn’t want a relationship with you. The word “friend”, or rather, the context of its use, even gave rise to the term “friend zone”, which means that a person who is in love with another without reciprocity is considered just a good friend. This is a polite substitute for “I’m not interested in you as a man, so you can be just a friend for me.”
- She always cancels your appointments at the last moment
When you call and offer to meet, a girl has no reason to refuse you, she is sincerely trying to give you a chance. But, the closer the date is, the more she doesn’t want to go on a date, but she can’t call and refuse you. What can help her? It is force majeure, of course. “The cat of my distant relatives on my mother’s side got sick, so I urgently need to go to another city! No one but me can help!” – seems unconvincing, right?
- She says she doesn’t want to rush things
If your hugs don’t make her dizzy, the current doesn’t rise up the spine from your kiss, and the small universe doesn’t explode somewhere in her head, then she wants not to rush things (read: she just doesn’t want to be with you). If this happens to you once or twice, then calm down, don’t worry. But if this is the fifth girl who doesn’t notice the man in you, then you have to change something in yourself and your behavior.
- She talks about other guys while she is with you
There are two options. First: she likes you, and thus she wants to make you jealous and track your reaction in order to understand whether you like her as a girl. Second (and more frequent): she doesn’t perceive you as a man. If a girl asks you for advice on how to interest a certain guy or says how she likes someone, but he doesn’t pay attention to her, then forget about being with this girl. Her thoughts are occupied by another man.
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